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Never seen a woman leave for another man making less money. True dat. They'll sure as hell dabble with "slummin' it", but I've yet to see one willing to actually leave, "empty handed". FC
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The only time I've ever seen a woman go for a guy with less money was when she was bankrolling herself with her previous husbands money. I've seen it with personal trainers and hired hands and neighbor guys but it's always on the ex-husbands dime.
What would Porter Rockwell do?
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Anyone brought up another woman???
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Behind every excuse is the real reason.....she has somebody else.
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Well Cisco, I have gotten a lot of sound advice from this thread. I also learned that the odds are against me for making this turn around. I have learned that I am not alone in the pain that I am feeling. I've been on this campfire longer than most and have learned that a LOT of good people are here to talk to, and listen to some wisdom. Anymore stupid questions?????
If you really like something,you better buy two!
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Just stop posting on this thread and get an attorney
Today is a sobering day for you but it's also the 1st day on the trail to a better happier life...only you will determine how long that trail is
I wish you the best and a short trail
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Just stop posting on this thread and get an attorney This. Please. Allow the rest of us to ramble on about Neti Potting dark roast and spin this thing into oblivion. You have more important things to do.
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Put JESUS in the center of the marriage. He's the only one that can heal it. Everything else is just a band-aid. : )
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Lots of divorced women push other women into a divorce.
"You deserve better/more/someone else/live your life/to be free/hes holding you back/etc....."
Entirely true... It's said you don't ever really know a woman until you see her in divorce court.
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MissLynn , you are correct, but I do not fall into any of those catagories------I am not perfect, have made misstakes, but like I said in OP, nothing that a loving wife shouldn't forgive and forget. I often thank her and tell her that she is the best mother in the world, and try to make her happy? Drop her off at every door, park the car and then go get car, and pick her up, shop for her on way home from work, even though she had all day to go and get it?ect....
If you really like something,you better buy two!
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birddog65, first off I am sorry for your current path. It sounds like this was unexpected for you and no one I know likes to get blind sided.
As another poster said, "when you are done, you are done." Only you can say if there is no hope but these are deliberate actions on your spouses part. One does have to try, you are, if she declines then it may be time to move on.
I wish you well.
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Stop blaming your self for HER actions
Buck up! You should be on the phone with an attorney already a couple of them actually all the good divorce attorneys in the area once you have a consult with them she can't hire them
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Sorry to hear it. The only advice I know is to have a P.I. follow her around and see if she's cheating on you. That plays a big part in the settlement.
It takes a village to raise an idiot.
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Yeah, Birddog, one more "stupid" question. Why would any woman stick with a guy , or have a guy for very long,that has to go to the internet for advice on affairs of the heart.
Looking for sympathy?
Just be yourself and figure out what you gotta do.
What would Ann landers say>
Sheesh��.
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Sorry to hear it. The only advice I know is to have a P.I. follow her around and see if she's cheating on you. That plays a big part in the settlement. Bullschit!
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shop for her on way home from work, even though she had all day to go and get it?ect.... "even though she had all day to get it?" Sounds like a bit of a shot..........
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"Never had a dollar mske me happy". Yeah, well sometimes young women (and men) dont know that when they marry someone and d3fide to haul ass when they finally learn that fact of life.
"Its partly birddogs fault because he wasnt perfect". BULLCHITT. Before marriage did she inform BD he would have to be perfect? Did the Bible or preacher or the congregstion or her parents or friends?
I did make a JOKE or two in my life.
Jesus didnt get married becauee he didnt want to sin (read: cuss).
Why do married men die first: They want to. Actually this is usuwlly true. Most men get used to being told what to do at home and get used to it and fear being left alone without a boss, and somronr to to take care of them at home.
Why do women live longer than men? Women dont have a wife.
Flame on. You ever see the rich guy with nice wheels in high school hsve an ugly girlfriend?
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If being stupid allows me to believe in Him, I'd wish to be a retard. Eisenhower and G Washington should be good company.
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MissLynn , you are correct, but I do not fall into any of those catagories------I am not perfect, have made misstakes, but like I said in OP, nothing that a loving wife shouldn't forgive and forget. I often thank her and tell her that she is the best mother in the world, and try to make her happy? Drop her off at every door, park the car and then go get car, and pick her up, shop for her on way home from work, even though she had all day to go and get it?ect.... Fugg her. Prepare for war dude. None of these bleeders think money is important. But just wait and see how fast the claws come out when you tell her she can't have any of it. You'll see where her priorities lie real quick. If you need any advice I'm here for you. I did very well in my divorce. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Sorry to hear it. The only advice I know is to have a P.I. follow her around and see if she's cheating on you. That plays a big part in the settlement. Maybe in some places, or at some time, but in my state, today, it has NO influence whatsoever. All either party has to do is check the box that says "irreconcilable differences", and a couple of weeks later, you're in front of the judge, leaving with half the pieces. In my state, she could have had an affair with the pope, and it wouldn't have made a difference.
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Sorry to hear it. The only advice I know is to have a P.I. follow her around and see if she's cheating on you. That plays a big part in the settlement. Not if it's a no-fault state it doesn't. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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