MissLynn , you are correct, but I do not fall into any of those catagories------I am not perfect, have made misstakes, but like I said in OP, nothing that a loving wife shouldn't forgive and forget. I often thank her and tell her that she is the best mother in the world, and try to make her happy? Drop her off at every door, park the car and then go get car, and pick her up, shop for her on way home from work, even though she had all day to go and get it?ect....
Fugg her.
Prepare for war dude. None of these bleeders think money is important. But just wait and see how fast the claws come out when you tell her she can't have any of it. You'll see where her priorities lie real quick.
If you need any advice I'm here for you. I did very well in my divorce.
Travis