You will get lots of advice, but each situation and each person in that situation is different. You know her well enough by now to see whether she is serious or just manipulating you to get more. I know what I would do (have done) in your spot, but I knew where I wanted to go and I knew what she was after. The one thing I will offer is to protect your assets as soon as possible. Sell your cars and your guns (on paper) to a sibling or friend you trust. Be a great father to the kids and show them your love. It will all work out. Good luck, brother.
