Anymore..... After 15 years and 4 children, youngest is 6. She does not think she wants to continue our marriage.She said she still cares for me, but not love. I have a marriage counsel set up for next monday, but it don't look good. She said diff.individual events over the past 10 years have caused her to loose the love. I have not done anything that would warrant a divorce, stuff that most should forgive and forget. I asked about the thousands of great things that I think that I have done for her/us---the family, and I guess its never enough. She has not had to work for the past 14 years, we have a beautiful house, vacation at the beach 3 weeks a year, a pool in the back yard----- a life that I think most woman would love to have------------I am fit, in shape, and have never had a problem in the looks dept. I love her like I have never loved another. Has anyone of you guys turned this situation around?????
I did birddog and she's gone away. And I see many of those situations around. It's a hard time and I guess every one gets through it according to his own priorities.
I wanted my kids 50 % and so do I 'cause I give big consideration to my duty as father.
I hope you can be fine and find the right pass through it, may she come back to you or not.
I learned that life and time challenge and changes husband and wife, and sometimes the feelings of one of them change too. Once that point has been reached, love is gone away ... I hope it's not your situation but this happens, often.
Oh, and getting a lawyer doesn't mean you have to use it right now. It's just like a gun, better to have one ready and having no need of it than the opposite situation.
