if you do split, bury your pride and only do what is in the best interest of the kids.....granted dont put yourself in the poor house.....but being vindictive towards your kids mother cause your hurt will do little but hurt your relationship with them in the long run....i have a better relationship with my oldest stepdaughter than she does with her mom because of my behavior versus hers....Kate spent the holidays with me, not her mom cause its what she wanted....
