Originally Posted by OU812Day
Originally Posted by Jim in Idaho
Nothing to add to the plethora of good, bad and ugly advice here, just a reminiscence of marriage counseling.

The whole point of counseling for my wife was so she could tell someone else what a sorry POS [bleep] I was, how everything was my fault and how she was perfect and blameless in all regards and then have that someone else say, "yes, of course you poor dear, you're absolutely right."

We went through three counselors before she found the one that would do that...


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THIS. Like I said, been there done that and Jim is ABSOLUTELY correct on this.

Session one for me was her telling the counselor all the bad chit I did and said. When I told my side, counselor asked her what her problem was. I'm thinking this is going well... Session two - exact repeat of session one. Session three - repeat of one and two. Session four - repeat of previous three. She wants a new counselor and to keep on going. It was obvious she didn't want to fix anything and just wanted hang me with a couple of "issues" she was having. I said fuggit - I'm done...