Birdog,
You're marriage is akin to an airplane. You put it on auto pilot and stepped out of the cockpit. The plane has run out of fuel and like it or not, the plane is coming down.
You have a choice, either get your azz back in the cockpit and grab the controls to do your best for a controlled but rough landing, or keep your hands off the controls and let it auger in on it's own.
Don't forget to survey the other flight attendants before making a decision.
Travis
