How's that working out for you? How about we back up and make sure we all understand what marriage is. Who created it, and what is the definition of it?
Marriage is a legally binding contract that connects two parties.
The government created it. That's why you need their permission to do it, and un-do it.
The definition of it is "a contract that has potentially long lasting financial consequences for you and your family if you choose to break it."
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