Its now a weird situation, one day she acts like nothing even happened, the next day---- I'm smothering her? I am very confused.
Idle hands make the devil's work. She's jacked up; don't follow her into it, if at least not for yourself, for your kids.
Quit piling eggs into a basket when someone tells you they're isn't enough of them one day or there's too many the next.
Leave it empty and see if someone other than you cares....
