To the OP. You've been handed 14 pages of HS and irrelevance with a few posts by which I could agree, mine being the strongest of them. Rather than making this thread be used as evidence, get a talented,competent lawyer in your jurisdiction and move on from there. Trust me when I tell you it doesn't make one damn bit of difference if you have a male or female attorney. Gender makes no difference to a lower court when the record is subject to appellate review.
Many here have honorable intentions to assist a member in pain but don't permit those intentions to cause you unwarranted pain as you proceed.
[/quote] You're pretty smart Isaac.....
For a lawyer.
