Anymore..... After 15 years and 4 children, youngest is 6. She does not think she wants to continue our marriage.She said she still cares for me, but not love. I have a marriage counsel set up for next monday, but it don't look good. She said diff.individual events over the past 10 years have caused her to loose the love. I have not done anything that would warrant a divorce, stuff that most should forgive and forget. I asked about the thousands of great things that I think that I have done for her/us---the family, and I guess its never enough. She has not had to work for the past 14 years, we have a beautiful house, vacation at the beach 3 weeks a year, a pool in the back yard----- a life that I think most woman would love to have------------I am fit, in shape, and have never had a problem in the looks dept. I love her like I have never loved another. Has anyone of you guys turned this situation around?????
You may turn it around, but she has a boyfriend.
+100
Don't take this as being because of you having done something or not doing something, It's her flaw and there is nothing wrong with you!
I know you don't want to hear this but the sooner you take off the blinders and get your head straight the sooner you can get a good attorney and protect yourself and rights with your children
Heck she may even give you custody of the children.
This is a rough time and it sucks but face it head on,things will get better!
