Most couples start experimenting with the Neti Pot and forget to agree on a safe word. That NEVER ends well........
We have a WINNER!
On the serious side, it is obvious that the to-be-ex in question feels there is something missing in her life.
That's fair. What ISN'T is her looking for what is missing without first working with her spouse.
However, she's found someone that is willing to re-affirm her belief that her unhappiness is the husband's fault. And she's narcissistic enough to be willing to boot a marriage and hurt her husband and kids, without taking a hard look at things with an independent third party.
But the OP really has already KNOWN that about her for a long time.....
