You can't think clearly now - GET A LAWYER! You can't breath right now. Get a Lawyer and you will breath again. Joint custody, 50-50 time. Get on track, eliminate your confusion. Retain a Lawyer! Stop suffering now. Face the facts, "She Gone". No Lawyer = Suffering and mental anguish. Get a Lawyer = On track now, going forward with your life. Eliminate the fear and confusion, Get a Lawyer. Do not wait, it just delays the process and you suffer needlessly. I speak from experience. Trust me on this. Fresh air is nice.
I CAN'T BREAVE!
Dave