Its now a weird situation, one day she acts like nothing even happened, the next day---- I'm smothering her? I am very confused.
Don't be confused.
She realizes that for whatever reason she is being selfish and wants you to grant her her freedom - so its "your choice" not hers, than it will always be "your" fault.
probably not possible without her being on board - she ain't.
I want to kiss my kids goodnight and see them in the morning before school.I cant imagine a 50/50 split in time with my kids. Did I mention that they are just 13, 12, 9 and 6 years old, the ages that I cant miss out on.
Well then get a damned attorney and fight for them.
geez, bro. Nut up.