Each case is different but my first wife started running around so I split. Gave her everything in the divorce and just walked away with what fit in a hundred dollar car. I got all the debt. When the divorce was final I went bankrupt on all her debt and then stole both kids. I worked for me because the state was about to grab the kids because on neglect and abuse. I have not seen her or heard from her since and that was 37 years ago.
Met and married a wonderful woman who is sitting next to me as I post this.
