I went through this 3 years ago. 14 years together, 3 kids, nice vehicles, descent house; we had it made. When she wanted to get divorced, we got divorced.
Really sucks. NOW she wants to come home after moving to west Texas (job related). Not exactly too little too late, but she somehow racked-up $100k in debt; ain't no way I want any part in that!!
Sorry to hear about your sitch. I wish you the best.
