Originally Posted by antelope_sniper
Originally Posted by djs
Originally Posted by FishinHank
Start squirreling away a secret stash of loot


And, make sure the credit (cards and bank access) is not allowed to balloon. Since she said this ("its' over") to you, she's committed herself to the end; just protect yourself as best you can. Talk to a lawyer and see how to best protect your finances legally.


You can call the credit card companies and request they reduce the credits limits, or just close them.

Since birddog is the principal income, the credit is in his name and he can request her cards be denied, or they can close accounts and mail him a new card in his name only. But, don't do this until after the decision to keep her or not.