Like was said earlier, you're gonna be okay. That's probably hard to see right now. Do not beat yourself up over this. It's okay to be introspective and ask what or if you could've done better, but don't bear the brunt of this.
I do believe that no matter how good a woman is, that their nature is to not let go of one branch until they have a firm grip on another. Sounds brutal to say, but many have lived it. I hope that's not the case here.
Take care of yourself and your kids, stay steady at work, and seek good counsel. Friends will expect you to lean heavily on them during the times ahead. Do so.
I hope the best for you.
