Been in this circle (and still in it somewhat) but I signed up for the long haul and my boys lives are at stake. My boys are what have been one of my sources for me to act as I want them to remember me by, no matter what happens, and my first source is God Himself. My wife and I have dodged that bullet so far and it is only due to His direction. I did go and talk to an attorney after I found out she had, what a breath of fresh air that was, before she let me know, but she had told her mom, sister and the boys that she was going thru with it. We are still together, almost a year later and every day is forward progress. A day at a time, a day at a time. May yours turn around and may your heart reflect all that is good.....
There are two days in every week about which we should not worry, two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension.
One of these days is Yesterday with all its mistakes and cares,
its faults and blunders, its aches and pains.
Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control.
All the money in the world cannot bring back Yesterday.
We cannot undo a single act we performed;
we cannot erase a single word we said.
Yesterday is gone forever.
The other day we should not worry about is Tomorrow
with all its possible adversities, its burdens,
its large promise and its poor performance;
Tomorrow is also beyond our immediate control.
Tomorrow's sun will rise,
either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds, but it will rise.
Until it does, we have no stake in Tomorrow,
for it is yet to be born.
This leaves only one day, Today.
Any person can fight the battle of just one day.
It is when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternities Yesterday and Tomorrow that we break down.
It is not the experience of Today that drives a person mad,
it is the remorse or bitterness of something which happened Yesterday and the dread of what Tomorrow may bring.
Let us, therefore, Live but one day at a time.
