Originally Posted by birddog65
Anymore..... After 15 years and 4 children, youngest is 6. She does not think she wants to continue our marriage.She said she still cares for me, but not love. I have a marriage counsel set up for next monday, but it don't look good. She said diff.individual events over the past 10 years have caused her to loose the love. I have not done anything that would warrant a divorce, stuff that most should forgive and forget. I asked about the thousands of great things that I think that I have done for her/us---the family, and I guess its never enough. She has not had to work for the past 14 years, we have a beautiful house, vacation at the beach 3 weeks a year, a pool in the back yard----- a life that I think most woman would love to have------------I am fit, in shape, and have never had a problem in the looks dept. I love her like I have never loved another. Has anyone of you guys turned this situation around?????
+Well sir,YOU ask for an answer,sooo here it is:Read your post.You are asking complete strangers for an answer to your situation on a web site made up of people who sit around for hours on end ignoring their wives and families making thousands of posts a year on websites such as this one.Also you have an appointment with basically another total stranger to pay money for council,who probably has more problems and worse than you do.You've been married to this woman for 15 years with more invested in material things than you do in her.This is what you wrote and what I read.I've been married once to the same woman for 40 years.Problems?Not really,we just ride the bumps and hang together.Remember,YOU asked.