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Emotional divorce---forwhatever reason---always, always precedes physical separation. If she is already emotionally divorced, it is highly unlikely you can that. Much truth to that statement. They've been thinkin' about it for a long time before they actually do it...and once they get to that point, it's almost always a done deal.
Every day on this side of the ground is a win.
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Seems to be a definite pattern developing in these counseling experiences.
Epstein didn't kill himself.
"Play Cinnamon Girl you Sonuvabitch!"
Biden didn't win the election.
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The women drag the men to counseling to get validation of their BS actions. TROOF! You could have added, well now that you are gone, I don't have to listen to your BS when I want to go have a beer or go to gun shop. You think I didn't?  Women like to rule the roost and will if the guy is a puzzy. More TROOF!
The deer hunter does not notice the mountains
"I fear all we have done is to awaken a sleeping giant and fill him with a terrible resolve" - Isoroku Yamamoto
There sure are a lot of America haters that want to live here...
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I'm betting that your replacement is already insight.
Has she had her girl parts removed? Is she approaching the the female change of life?
Jim
"Whensoever the General Government assumes undelegated powers, its acts are unauthoritative, void, and of no force." --Thomas Jefferson
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Start squirreling away a secret stash of loot And, make sure the credit (cards and bank access) is not allowed to balloon. Since she said this ("its' over") to you, she's committed herself to the end; just protect yourself as best you can. Talk to a lawyer and see how to best protect your finances legally.
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One other thing, say as little as you can and don't get angry and say things that can be used against you at a divorce proceeding.
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This thread needs a little pick me up!  Do y'all remember OKOK's bullschitt thread about seeing his buddy's wife with another man, and ASKING ADVICE about what he should do? Good ol' Leslie.
That was some epically sad chit. Made up story's about make believe friends and imaginary lovers.
Only on the Fire! (Or day time TV) I'm down in Oregon Steelheading for the last 10 days at my best Buds house. He has to work during the day, so I'm mainly fishing and playing with the Dogs. My best buds wife is in the UK on a business trip, so I thought   Here is where it gets slimey...I had to make a trip to Fred Meyers (sort of like a Target store) to pick up some Molley screws. When I entered the store, there is a Peets Coffee cafe, low an behold I see Leslie and some other dude being all lovey dovey They both had their elbows on the table, both leaning over about 6" apart. I'm just SHOCKED! I thought they had a really good marriage??  I feel physically sick to my stomach, and don't know what to do? She was suppose to arrive tomorrow,infact my bud is suppose to pick her up at the airport. I'm almost 99% sure that she didn't see me. I sat in my truck for several minutes comptanplating to go and introduce myself...but chicken out.  Now I don't know what the hel! to do? Should I tell him? or pretend nothing happened. I'm leaning towards telling him, that won't be easy to do. They have been married for close to 20 years, no kids. Any advice would be very helpful. GDTFH!!
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Chitt-disturber...
"I'm gonna have to science the schit out of this." Mark Watney, Sol 59, Mars
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Chitt-disturber... Yeah, and I know his Mother raised him better than that....
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My ex asked me for a divorce... I gave it to her, it was worth it.
When people face the possibility of freezing or starving there is little chance they are going to listen to unfounded claims of climate doomsday from a bunch of ultra-rich yacht sailing private jet-setting carbon-spewing hypocrite elites
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The reason divorces are so expensive? Because they are worth it.
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Having a little trouble viewing the next page.....help?
Sometimes, the air you 'let in'matters less than the air you 'let out'.
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This thread needs a little pick me up! Do y'all remember OKOK's bullschitt thread about seeing his buddy's wife with another man, and ASKING ADVICE about what he should do? Good ol' Leslie.
That was some epically sad chit. Made up story's about make believe friends and imaginary lovers.
Only on the Fire! (Or day time TV) I'm down in Oregon Steelheading for the last 10 days at my best Buds house. He has to work during the day, so I'm mainly fishing and playing with the Dogs. My best buds wife is in the UK on a business trip, so I thought Here is where it gets slimey...I had to make a trip to Fred Meyers (sort of like a Target store) to pick up some Molley screws. When I entered the store, there is a Peets Coffee cafe, low an behold I see Leslie and some other dude being all lovey dovey They both had their elbows on the table, both leaning over about 6" apart. I'm just SHOCKED! I thought they had a really good marriage?? I feel physically sick to my stomach, and don't know what to do? She was suppose to arrive tomorrow,infact my bud is suppose to pick her up at the airport. I'm almost 99% sure that she didn't see me. I sat in my truck for several minutes comptanplating to go and introduce myself...but chicken out. Now I don't know what the hel! to do? Should I tell him? or pretend nothing happened. I'm leaning towards telling him, that won't be easy to do. They have been married for close to 20 years, no kids. Any advice would be very helpful. GDTFH!!
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So i buy it. The weekend comes and I head up to camp and visit the wife and kids in my new Camry. Apparently , I did this "behind he back"(sic)????? and she was furious. I could see this being a point of contention in a healthy relationship. But I can't see, "furious" in this instance, since money doesn't seem to be in short supply in your family, and since she's earning precisely 0% of the household income. However, there's this: Mean while its summer, and wife and kids are at her family camp in the national forest (she just takes off and goes for a week or 2 at any given time) as she has unlimited vacation time. 1) Unaccounted-for time. HUGE problem here. 2) Double standard = you must account to her for the car purchase, but she'll travel when & where she pleases, without asking if you have plans, would like to join her, or anything. She's treating you with contempt, and you need to wake the fcuk up! 3) Tell me, how often do the kids go with her to "the camp"? Or, is this just "me time" for her? Do any male family friends show up at "the camp"? Do her credit card purchases during trips to "the camp" match up with the geographic area? (I'm sure you pay her credit card, so it'll be easy enough to check those purchases) she has brought this up several times She knows it's a bullshit complaint, and she has nothing substantive to bitch about, but this will have to do, because you need to be beaten into submission. In summary, you're headed for a major fall. You don't want to believe what's going on, and are refusing to see it. You're ignoring the advice to get a lawyer, and the advice to quit fcuking posting here. This one is going to be ugly. FC
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I take back my advice. Don't get a lawyer.
You'll be fine using the posts here to deal with your wife's lawyer and the judge.
The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.
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I think it is healthy for the OP to vent and I encourage him to continue to do so.
Clark
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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I take back my advice. Don't get a lawyer.
You'll be fine using the posts here to deal with your wife's lawyer and the judge. I told you guys he was mad. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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I take back my advice. Don't get a lawyer.
You'll be fine using the posts here to deal with your wife's lawyer and the judge.
Communists: I still hate them even after they changed their name to "liberals".
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Once again you have proven yourself the first rate POS that you are.
I'd love to stick around and badger you like I did the last time you ran your mouth, when you tucked tail and ran away for a whole month. But I'm kinda busy now.
I'd also love for you to talk to me in person the way you do others behind that screen, for I would surely bitchslap your little punkass into oblivion.
Anytime you'd like to take me up on that, PLEASE let me know. Scumbag POS.
My best to the OP..... You better bring your A game bitch. I ain't exactly a little fella and I've never been afraid to light it up. I reckon there's a better than average chance I've whupped bigger and tougher than you before. LMAO. You are a scumbag, and everyone here knows you are a scumbag. Because scumbag is the only language you are fluent in. And given the PM you sent me, before I put you on ignore, you are a first rate pussy as well. I reckon there is a better than average chance I'd beat you like a sunday morning boner. Keep insulting people's loved ones, you lowlife POS......
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I only get mad when I'm not paid for my advice.
I think every divorcing spouse should hire a blog instead of a lawyer.
The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.
William Arthur Ward
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