1) "We talked about "us" while she was still with the other guy"

She'll do the same thing to you when the new wears off.

2) "She's been married 3 times"

If she's been married 3 times you need to know some of the reasons they didn't work out. Have you met her Mother? Women usually turn into their Mothers.

3) "She's just out of a 5 yr. relationship"

I bet it wasn't her only live in relationship. Women don't like to tell you about those.

4) "Hell she came from another state to be here."

She moved from another state to be with you? Sounds like she's desperate. I'd get a criminal background check and a financial background check done on her.

5) "Inherited a cat too"

That would be the deal breaker for me. You don't mention kids (another deal breaker) but after 3 marriages seems like she should have some.

If you are never been married single man with no crazy ex-wife to deal with, have a good job, aren't a drug addict or have a criminal record there are lots of really hot divorced women out there looking for you. Be patient.