Get a pair of large straight medical forceps, and use those to handle the bullets.
Or have a kid help you. They like to work with the little bullets.
All my helpers grew up. The forceps sound good. I used to keep some on the bench to take out single grains of powder but lost them at some point. I will buy three next time I see the long ones for sale. Learned not to campfer the cases to a sharp edge the hard way, ouch.