AnF

Sometimes they will listen to a third party better than they will a spouse. Does she have a social worker assigned to her?

Might be worth a try.

Founder
Ancient Order of the 1895 Winchester

"Come, shall we go and kill us venison?
And yet it irks me the poor dappled fools,
Being native burghers of this desert city,
Should in their own confines with forked heads
Have their round haunches gored."

WS