Now to be serious for a short time. There was a carpenter, near here, his first name was Frances. Frances was of slight build, and spoke softly. He built houses mostly alone, but two local men would help him from the time they got off work at 5 until after dark.
When he said something about building, I paid heed because I knew he was right.
I don't know where you are going with that, but being a man has nothing to do with tone of voice, build etc. It's all in actions, decisions, intentions, deeds.
Every man knows that.
