We stayed with my mom for about 1 1/2 years as she fought pancreatic cancer.

You are a good son for doing all that you can for your mother.

May Peace and Blessings be upon you, her and your family as you help her in every way that you can.

If you are not actively engaging EVERY enemy you encounter... you are allowing another to fight for you... and that is cowardice... plain and simple.