I let my mother slip away, dad was overwhelmed and exhausted from caring for her

She was on lots of psych meds and was physically failing too. But only due to a few small things that piled up abruptly. Which I think could have been resolved.

Thinking back now, I would have sacked her up like the A Team did BA Baracus and stuffed her in a van and hauled her to Mayo Clinic. She was stubborn too but 55 was too young.