Maternal Grand-mother and her clan.
Had to spend a lot of time with them as a kid, they had me doing
it for awhile. Mom stopped that quick!

Wasn't any drinking from a bowl or mixing of food at Mom's table.
Pap was half English/Swede, impeccable table manners and taught
his kids. His wife's family were feral, and Gram seemed to prefer
that life.

Parents who say they have good kids..Usually don't!