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I'm supposed to say something meaningful, and I am going to fail--absolutely 100%. I'm sorry for that. More importantly, I am very, very sorry for you losing your bride. I'm sorry for Kathy and that she had to slowly deteriorate, and for the confusion and frustration she felt along the way.
I lost a grandfather to dementia. I remember the mixed emotions of going to see him and bringing photographs of the family to look at on a laptop. He would look at the same 125 photos over and over, never realizing that he just saw them a few moments ago. My mother-in-law had dementia as well; she passed last year. It's a tough way to go.
I am, however, happy to hear about the good times and good years you had together. She knew the Lord as her Savior so that's a blessing. As your days ahead turn into weeks, months, and years, I hope that you are able to enjoy your life.
43 1/2 years. I'd say that's a job well done. You have my congratulations and condolences.
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Mercy ceases to be a virtue when it enables further injustice. -Brent Weeks
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Not experienced such in our immediate family, but did assist both of our 90+ year old neighbors through their struggles. They had spent 70 years together.
Been married here for 46 years, and can not imagine going to bed with out my partner beside me. Dwell on the good times, and perhaps the pain will subside.
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LW,
my absolute sincerest condolences.
One of the toughest stories I've ever read here.
Hang tough.
Geno
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In it is contentment
In it is death and all you seek
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Best wishes for you. I am so sorry to read about your loss. Your pain was beautifully written, jumping at me with gravity. God be with you. Phillipians 4:13
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I am so saddened by your loss. I wish I could say anything that would help but having been there I understand my words would mean very little. You do have my sympathy. Best regards Bear
Bear
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Sorry for your loss. You are a fine example of a loving husband. What you have been through is one of my greatest fears.
Let's Go Brandon! FJB
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I envy a man who has been lucky enough to have found such a deep and abiding love. You were very blessed and I’m sure that makes your loss seem even greater.
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Obey lawful commands. Video interactions. Hold bad cops accountable. Problem solved.
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Sorry for the loss of your wife and best friend!
I know all to well what a terrible disease Alzheimer's is as I watched my dad go through a very similar fate.
Best wishes to you and yours!
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My heartfelt condolences, Leanwolf.
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I am so sorry for your loss, Dementia is an evil thing to watch.
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Took a good man to say all that ....darn.....
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My condolences. You did everything duty and love requires of a husband.
Regards,
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Very sorry for your loss. May Kathy Rest In Peace and comfort.
Hold on to the precious memories of better times.
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May God bless and comfort you.
Thank you for sharing your story with us.
I regret not knowing anything I can do to help.
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Prayers offered as you begin your grieving process. I've been reading you posts for years.... we have never PM ed one another but if you have a specific Prayer request please feel free to let me know.
You are one of the good guys.
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No words LW. That is an experience no one should have to endure, yet many of us will at some point. You are exactly what a husband should be, hoping you find the peace you deserve.
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Condolences thoughts and prayers.
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