I have many black friends that absolutely are responsible like me and you. I probably can name 50 or more that I grew up around that are good to go. As high a percentage, maybe higher, than the whites I grew up around.
But the ones the OP is referring to grow up in extreme poverty, fatherless, in horrible cultural conditions. Go to an elementary school in these areas and it is quickly apparent that these kids have no chance. Drop a white kid in these conditions and get the same result. The cycle continues.
Contrary to that, with my time in Minnesota.. you'd get some well educated white liberal chick with a good job and marry a black professional male, such as an attorney or whatever. Despite being liberal democRats they were socially responsible in society. Yet their silver spoon in his mouth, little oreo punk still grows up and prefers to act like some ghetto punk, gets his ass arrested and then calls those that arrested him racists... and then Daddy the lawyer to get him bailed out, because his little oreo punk is Daddy's and mommy's pride and joy... and will just keep pulling the same crap over and over.
Had one daughter who got into that situation trying to be liberal democRat bimbo. goes out with this oreo punk, who drives a Mercedes, then picks here up and goes down and robs a convenience store " just for the fun of it", more than once. both parents were attorneys..... Some of my ex wife's nieces did and do the same thing...now they live on welfare, have half a dozen oreo kids, never see the half dozen fathers except when they need or want something.. or are looking for any port in the storm, etc...
at least my daughter finally wised up at 30 years old... but her first response was to get married to a Puerto Rican, who did exactly what I told her he would do, after they got married.....got her pregnant, and then after 2 years... wants to leave her for another dumb liberal bimbo.... the lady next door, across the street who he'd been banging for 18 months, and got her Blonde haired, blue eyed ass knocked up....
Too many stupid liberal white chicks from good families are indoctrinated in school, and end up following these people from another culture, and have their entire lives destroyed.. at least my daughter managed to finally figure it all out and got out of the problems... she is now married to a decent white guy, with a good work ethic, and she is a hard core Republican, and is what liberals would call a racist.... thank God she was smart enough to finally figure it out...
every social problem this country has, you can track it back to democRats..... and despite many well to do minorities, their kids are indoctrinated in schools to be " bad boys" or Ghetto Gangsters, even when they live in well to do white suburban neighborhoods...
too many people expect them to be just like White Culture when they aren't.... just the same way you can take the boy out of the country, but not the country out of the boy...
you can take a black person out of the Jungles of Africa.... but you rarely are able to take the jungle or Africa out of a black person.. even when they have been here for 10 generations....growing up it wasn't like that... but back then, blacks were Republicans and beloved in God and went to church and were taught Christian values.. demcoRats changed that and have indoctrinated for them to be what they are today.....
Go set in a court and watch in a liberal city on how white judges treat Blacks in front of a judge and how they act like they are the victims... and the judges let them go, and then will nail any white punk to the wall, for doing something simple and stupid...
DemocRats create social problems, and then expect us to vote for them to administer the problems that they created....
Thank LBJ for that... " I'll have them Ni*^ers voting DemocRat for the next 200 years!" all the while from a person who hated blacks....