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If you can't compromise/adapt , don't marry....
Hell, retirement was almost as much....after 40 years of marriage, both of us working.
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Depends how much you respect her. If she’s not good enough to give her your name then have at it. She may not want your name thus the hyphenated ones. It’s a new day. Then she’s not worth the seed. There’s whores and then there’s ladies. Used to be a difference. Happy Camper approves this post. He may, but it’s irrelevant. A woman that won’t take the name of her husband isn’t worth marrying, let alone having kids with. If a guy is sterile then I guess no harm no foul. To each their own. I doubt you’d call a woman a whore in front of her long time live in male partner. Jmo
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If there is no up or down, no right or wrong, might as well let the child molesters and soy boy/girls run the world.
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If there is no up or down, no right or wrong, might as well let the child molesters and soy boy/girls run the world. Right.
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Depends how much you respect her. If she’s not good enough to give her your name then have at it. Can't argue with that logic... Problem being very few deserve that respect
Originally Posted by Judman
PS, if you think Trump is “good” you’re way stupider than I thought! Haha
Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit.
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If there is no up or down, no right or wrong, might as well let the child molesters and soy boy/girls run the world. We are seeing this result of this today.... buckle up
Originally Posted by Judman
PS, if you think Trump is “good” you’re way stupider than I thought! Haha
Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit.
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Depends how much you respect her. If she’s not good enough to give her your name then have at it. She may not want your name thus the hyphenated ones. It’s a new day. Then she’s not worth the seed. There’s whores and then there’s ladies. Used to be a difference. Happy Camper approves this post. He may, but it’s irrelevant. A woman that won’t take the name of her husband isn’t worth marrying, let alone having kids with. If a guy is sterile then I guess no harm no foul. To each their own. I doubt you’d call a woman a whore in front of her long time live in male partner. Jmo Lol If she’s mouthing off and acting like a man, I would speak to her like a man. If she is demure and there is no reason, to then why in the hell would I? Id just tell my kids to avoid their kids and tell em why. Christ’s sake, just because you disagree with someone doesn’t mean you have to make it an issue. But apparently this strikes close to home? Just curious. I don’t GAF either way, but I do care about societal norms in this country.
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If there is no up or down, no right or wrong, might as well let the child molesters and soy boy/girls run the world. We are seeing this result of this today.... buckle up Yup Can’t bitch about alphabet people, or welfare, or all the resultant mess if they’re not willing to address the root.
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Regardless of the legal formalities, there is a huge benefit to stable two-parent families. Makes all the difference in the world for the kids, and eventually for the parents.
Been married 54 years, and we are just getting into the great grandchildren phase. In short, my children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren are probably the greatest source of joy in my life. If we hadn't formed a stable two-parent family, I wouldn't have that.
If you wake up at age 60 and realize that changing partners every few to several years hasn't worked out for you, it's too late for a do over.
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Depends how much you respect her. If she’s not good enough to give her your name then have at it. She may not want your name thus the hyphenated ones. It’s a new day. Then she’s not worth the seed. There’s whores and then there’s ladies. Used to be a difference. Happy Camper approves this post. He may, but it’s irrelevant. A woman that won’t take the name of her husband isn’t worth marrying, let alone having kids with. If a guy is sterile then I guess no harm no foul. To each their own. I doubt you’d call a woman a whore in front of her long time live in male partner. Jmo Lol If she’s mouthing off and acting like a man, I would speak to her like a man. If she is demure and there is no reason, to then why in the hell would I? Id just tell my kids to avoid their kids and tell em why. Christ’s sake, just because you disagree with someone doesn’t mean you have to make it an issue. But apparently this strikes close to home? Just curious. I don’t GAF either way, but I do care about societal norms in this country. It appears you’re making things an issue here. But that’s okay. Carry on.
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Depends how much you respect her. If she’s not good enough to give her your name then have at it. Depends how much you respect her. If she’s not good enough to give her your name then have at it. She may not want your name thus the hyphenated ones. It’s a new day. Then she’s not worth the seed. There’s whores and then there’s ladies. Used to be a difference. Happy Camper approves this post. He may, but it’s irrelevant. A woman that won’t take the name of her husband isn’t worth marrying, let alone having kids with. If a guy is sterile then I guess no harm no foul. To each their own. I doubt you’d call a woman a whore in front of her long time live in male partner. Jmo Lol If she’s mouthing off and acting like a man, I would speak to her like a man. If she is demure and there is no reason, to then why in the hell would I? Id just tell my kids to avoid their kids and tell em why. Christ’s sake, just because you disagree with someone doesn’t mean you have to make it an issue. But apparently this strikes close to home? Just curious. I don’t GAF either way, but I do care about societal norms in this country. 100%
Parents who say they have good kids..Usually don't!
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Regardless of the legal formalities, there is a huge benefit to stable two-parent families. Makes all the difference in the world for the kids, and eventually for the parents.
Been married 54 years, and we are just getting into the great grandchildren phase. In short, my children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren are probably the greatest source of joy in my life. If we hadn't formed a stable two-parent family, I wouldn't have that.
If you wake up at age 60 and realize that changing partners every few to several years hasn't worked out for you, it's too late for a do over. Correct..... problem is millions of people have bought into the leftist propaganda and are now cat ladies and old cuck men and they are angry and determined to take it out on happy traditional people
Originally Posted by Judman
PS, if you think Trump is “good” you’re way stupider than I thought! Haha
Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit.
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The government should not be involved in your private life.
I got banned on another web site for a debate that happened on this site. That's a first
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Government really needs to be out of the marriage business too. Why the heck does anyone need a license to get married?
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Government really needs to be out of the marriage business too. Why the heck does anyone need a license to get married? Exactly
I got banned on another web site for a debate that happened on this site. That's a first
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Honestly I wanted to shack first 20 years ago. Wife said marry me or I ain’t moving in. Thank goodness she stood her ground. After all the drama that is a relationship. If we had shacked it probably would have been over before we weathered the storm to the great part.
Marital councilor told me once the reason co habit first marriages fail more often is. You still hide things about your personality while you co habit. Then once married they stop being hid.
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Did for a little over a year,it's been 42 years since marriage.
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Regardless of the legal formalities, there is a huge benefit to stable two-parent families. Makes all the difference in the world for the kids, and eventually for the parents.
Been married 54 years, and we are just getting into the great grandchildren phase. In short, my children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren are probably the greatest source of joy in my life. If we hadn't formed a stable two-parent family, I wouldn't have that.
If you wake up at age 60 and realize that changing partners every few to several years hasn't worked out for you, it's too late for a do over. Correct..... problem is millions of people have bought into the leftist propaganda and are now cat ladies and old cuck men and they are angry and determined to take it out on happy traditional people Traditional marriages divorce rates in the USA are running at 50%. So much for your happy traditional people.
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Honestly I wanted to shack first 20 years ago. Wife said marry me or I ain’t moving in. Thank goodness she stood her ground. After all the drama that is a relationship. If we had shacked it probably would have been over before we weathered the storm to the great part.
Marital councilor told me once the reason co habit first marriages fail more often is. You still hide things about your personality while you co habit. Then once married they stop being hid. With a present 50% divorce rate somebody must be hiding sonmething in their marriages.
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Government really needs to be out of the marriage business too. Why the heck does anyone need a license to get married? Exactly A contract has legalities involved as do implied contracts.
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