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The divorce rate has everything to do with it. Most divorces are over money issues if what one reads is to be believed. Not anymore. The number one reason women give for initiating divorce is "I'm not happy". In English she's jealous of the Fakebook and Instahoe feeds of all the women she follows. She decides she wants a taller, richer, fitter, better looking, "bigger" man, and believes all the Opera types who tell she can just "manifest that man", so she decides to dump her perfectly adequate husband thinks she tame and marry "Chad" or "Tyrone".
You didn't use logic or reason to get into this opinion, I cannot use logic or reason to get you out of it.
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the question changes if something happens to your spouse and they die or disappear….
Dating when you are older sucks, and even though there are a lot of women, some say most of them have issues
They ALL, have issues, the question is, can/do you want to, deal with them. And men don't have issues... When you look at statistics such as who's on more head meds, reports more attempts at self harm and diagnosis for mental conditions, women far surpass men in those areas, and the younger and more liberal the women the worse the numbers. No contest A.S. you are 100% correct. I always get a laugh out of these threads from guys married 40 yrs and think they know todays "modern" woman Yea, it's pretty funny. They have no clue.
You didn't use logic or reason to get into this opinion, I cannot use logic or reason to get you out of it.
You cannot over estimate the unimportance of nearly everything. John Maxwell
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the question changes if something happens to your spouse and they die or disappear….
Dating when you are older sucks, and even though there are a lot of women, some say most of them have issues
They ALL, have issues, the question is, can/do you want to, deal with them. And men don't have issues... None that I'm aware of :-)
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Dating when you are older sucks, and even though there are a lot of women, some say most of them have issues
So true. Dating is exhausting. The vast majority have some real issues - especially Caucasian women. For single women, the older they are the more issues they have. There's a reason no one put a ring on it before she hit 26.
You didn't use logic or reason to get into this opinion, I cannot use logic or reason to get you out of it.
You cannot over estimate the unimportance of nearly everything. John Maxwell
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The Christian religion calls marriage Holy matrimony.
They don't call shacking up Holy shacking up. I believe they call it adultery. No one under 70 cares.
You didn't use logic or reason to get into this opinion, I cannot use logic or reason to get you out of it.
You cannot over estimate the unimportance of nearly everything. John Maxwell
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The guys that kill me are the ones that say my wife is an angel for putting up with me for 43 yrs.... really? wtf? did it occur to them to be better spouses?
Originally Posted by Judman
PS, if you think Trump is “good” you’re way stupider than I thought! Haha
Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit.
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It's called COMMITMENT. Get your little feelings out of the way and stand up. 38 years and counting. It aint easy. Not every male can do it. Real men can. You've got that backwards. It's not men leaving marriages, its the women. Here's an interesting statistic for you. About 60% of divorces are filed by women. In Marriages where the woman has a college degree, 90% of the divorces are filed by women.
You didn't use logic or reason to get into this opinion, I cannot use logic or reason to get you out of it.
You cannot over estimate the unimportance of nearly everything. John Maxwell
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The guys that kill me are the ones that say my wife is an angel for putting up with me for 43 yrs.... really? wtf? did it occur to them to be better spouses? I might be more inclined to ask, are you sure she's the angel you think she is?
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The guys that kill me are the ones that say my wife is an angel for putting up with me for 43 yrs.... really? wtf? did it occur to them to be better spouses? I might be more inclined to ask, are you sure she's the angel you think she is? Lol ... good point
Originally Posted by Judman
PS, if you think Trump is “good” you’re way stupider than I thought! Haha
Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit.
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The guys that kill me are the ones that say my wife is an angel for putting up with me for 43 yrs.... really? wtf? did it occur to them to be better spouses? That's a sure sign a man doesn't know his own value.
You didn't use logic or reason to get into this opinion, I cannot use logic or reason to get you out of it.
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The guys that kill me are the ones that say my wife is an angel for putting up with me for 43 yrs.... really? wtf? did it occur to them to be better spouses? You ever think it’s YOU old fuggs with issues? LOL
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The guys that kill me are the ones that say my wife is an angel for putting up with me for 43 yrs.... really? wtf? did it occur to them to be better spouses? That's a sure sign a man doesn't know his own value. 43 yrs of henpecking will have that affect.... 
Originally Posted by Judman
PS, if you think Trump is “good” you’re way stupider than I thought! Haha
Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit.
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The guys that kill me are the ones that say my wife is an angel for putting up with me for 43 yrs.... really? wtf? did it occur to them to be better spouses? You ever think it’s YOU old fuggs with issues? LOL No....... next stupid question
Originally Posted by Judman
PS, if you think Trump is “good” you’re way stupider than I thought! Haha
Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit.
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We "shacked up" for three years prior to marriage. Smart move that we both agree. We have now been happily married 34 years. If shacking up was such a great thing, why did you marry? Gotta say, at 52, I font think I would ever re-marry. Wouldn't move one in either. But I might fornicate. It's been 26 years, but I remember it being fun. Sure hope to never have to worry about it. Because we wanted to. Simple, eh? Why the puhuck do you care what we did? Why the puhuck you so defensive? It's a pretty obvious question. One a guy as educated as yourself should anticipate. IDGAF if you jump off a bridge together. But, if living together was the beans, why did you want to marry? ^^^^ Rocket scientist.
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The guys that kill me are the ones that say my wife is an angel for putting up with me for 43 yrs.... really? wtf? did it occur to them to be better spouses? You ever think it’s YOU old fuggs with issues? LOL Kinda like a Taylor Swift album. She might need to look in the mirror for the reasons for all her “creativity”.
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The guys that kill me are the ones that say my wife is an angel for putting up with me for 43 yrs.... really? wtf? did it occur to them to be better spouses? You ever think it’s YOU old fuggs with issues? LOL No....... next stupid question LOL
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The guys that kill me are the ones that say my wife is an angel for putting up with me for 43 yrs.... really? wtf? did it occur to them to be better spouses? You ever think it’s YOU old fuggs with issues? LOL Everybody has issues, after a while everyone is damaged goods too, with adult luggage, but then again there's taking ownership of those issues and acknowledging those special times when you're acted like an ass. That's something women don't do.
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We "shacked up" for three years prior to marriage. Smart move that we both agree. We have now been happily married 34 years. If shacking up was such a great thing, why did you marry? Gotta say, at 52, I font think I would ever re-marry. Wouldn't move one in either. But I might fornicate. It's been 26 years, but I remember it being fun. Sure hope to never have to worry about it. Because we wanted to. Simple, eh? Why the puhuck do you care what we did? Why the puhuck you so defensive? It's a pretty obvious question. One a guy as educated as yourself should anticipate. IDGAF if you jump off a bridge together. But, if living together was the beans, why did you want to marry? ^^^^ Rocket scientist. Awful elusive on the reason you decided to marry. I don't get it. Not a big deal, is it. Maybe you lived together long enough. Decided to "make it permanent". You seem awful touchy on the subject. It's 2022, almost. If her dad stuck a shotgun up your rear and marched you to the JP, heck, that's just a good story now.
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Did the trial run of 10 years before we got married. Figured it was safer to work through those 20s with plenty of ability to exit if she wakes up "unhappy".
Yup.
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Did the trial run of 10 years before we got married. Figured it was safer to work through those 20s with plenty of ability to exit if she wakes up "unhappy". What blows my mind is the mid 40s to later 50s women that just split. Often married to a rock solid, good guy. Then they destroy all that. And take up with Tyrone. Or a meth head. Or, another woman? Mines 45. Rock solid. That's what a lot of guys have thought.
Parents who say they have good kids..Usually don't!
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