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Happen alot when folks are at peace when the time comes.
I know my mom in her state of mind was actually happy when it came. She lived a good life with good kids and grandkids. She was actually smiling when the machines were turned off.
Hope I'm that brave My moms last coherent words were "God is great". I hope I can go with that kind of peace.
Fight fire, save lives, laugh in the face of danger.
Stupid always finds a way.
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I just hope that Karma thing is BS.
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Stab them in the taint, you can't put a tourniquet on that. Craig Douglas ECQC
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I just hope that Karma thing is BS.
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Yes in a way but, it will happen like it or not.
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Not as much as the people who ride with me.
There is no retreat but in submission and slavery!
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Not afraid at all, but I’d prefer to hold off a bit. 😜
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Not as much as the people who ride with me.
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No. I'm afraid to watch that video though - cliffnotes?
A person who's happy will make others happy. Anne Frank
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I had stroke this past July 29. That put a whole new perspective on dying while laying there on the table while 6-7 people are rushing around getting tubes in you and pumping drugs into your body.
Back in the late70's I spent a night in a cardiac ICU ward.There six of us in there. In the morning I was the only one alive.That made an impression on me.
There have been other times in my life where I have been close to death, but I didn't have time to think about it because of what was going on. I got a little shaky after everything was over with though.
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At this point in my life I am not afraid of death I may change my mine just before it happens Time will tell.
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I am more afraid of rotting away in a nursing home than dying.
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I used to think I wasn't afraid of dying until I saw my first wife laying in a casket with everything that was just completely gone. It put me into an existential crisis for a while and I'm still unsteady about it all. The only thing that gives me any solace about death is that everyone goes through it, including many people that I loved and cared about.
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I just want to die peacefully in my sleep, just like my grandfather. Not yelling and screaming like his three passengers.
"Full time night woman? I never could find no tracks on a woman's heart. I packed me a squaw for ten year, Pilgrim. Cheyenne, she were, and the meanest bitch that ever balled for beads."
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Im not afraid of dying but I am afraid of suffering. I witnessed to much of it..
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Well mister, I had myself a damn good time. I'm on dialysis, I should be long dead.
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Im not afraid of dying but I am afraid of suffering. I witnessed to much of it.. My mother passed from huntingtons. Talk about rough. Add to that everyone in her family hated her guts because she was the meanest, most spiteful person they'd ever met and no one would take care of her. I had been estranged for the vast majority of my life and ended up having to deal with her for her last years. My father may have caused it - I don't know or care. He would get to drinking and make her get out of the car at gunpoint, strip naked and walk many miles home. Then he would spend the evening wondering why the hell I thought that was a bad idea. If mom hadn't shot and killed him directly over my head when I was 5, I would have been obligated to kill him for what he did to my mom and my brother.
A person who's happy will make others happy. Anne Frank
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Im not afraid of dying but I am afraid of suffering. I witnessed to much of it.. My mother passed from huntingtons. Talk about rough. Add to that everyone in her family hated her guts because she was the meanest, most spiteful person they'd ever met and no one would take care of her. I had been estranged for the vast majority of my life and ended up having to deal with her for her last years. My father may have caused it - I don't know or care. He would get to drinking and make her get out of the car at gunpoint, strip naked and walk many miles home. Then he would spend the evening wondering why the hell I thought that was a bad idea. If mom hadn't shot and killed him directly over my head when I was 5, I would have been obligated to kill him for what he did to my mom and my brother. Jeebus. Everyone else repeat after me. "My life wasn't so bad."
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No. I'm afraid to watch that video though - cliffnotes? Geno...I guarantee you, it will not scare you...it gave me a comforting perspective...the fellow in the video is a long time ER MD, he is/was also an ICU MD, and did a lot of Hospice care.
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Preparing for the transit is penultimate. The last step is unfathomable by Nature.
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Everyone is afraid of death. Christian or non-Christian. You may live in the hope of the resurrection but when death comes you will have fear, anxiety and uncertainty. As a disclaimer, I don't view hope as wishful thinking but rather the Biblical definition of surety. Unless, a person dies in their sleep there will be fear. There will be fear because a path is being walked that you've never stepped foot on.
Surety is a comforting thing but it will never replace the creature response of fear of that passage if time to observe that passage is given to the person. Well said.
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Acquit v. t. To render a judgment in a murder case in San Francisco... EQUAL, adj. As bad as something else. Ambrose Bierce “The Devil's Dictionary”
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