With the amount of shoes that get delivered to our doorstep, I have no problem with full transparency in what I buy.
My wife isn't much of a spender, so I don't have that reciprocity argument.
Selmer
"Daddy, can you sometime maybe please go shoot a water buffalo so we can have that for supper? Please? And can I come along? Does it taste like deer?" - my 3-year old daughter
