The guy is twenty years old, goes to church and must be watched because he has been known for some very odd behavior with the younger kids in the past and has concenting sex with a fifteen year old?
Besides this guy being a scum bag, the church allows him on their property and around their children which I find disturbing as the perv's behavior.
If this was back when I was born I woulden't have been born. My mother was 15 when my sister was born, My father was 25 so he would of been put in jail and I would of not been made when my mother was 16. she turned 17 just before I was born. Funny how things work. so are we getting too paranoid about 15 yearolds having sex? If god diden't want them to have sex he would of not made them able to have babies at that age,
A difficult situation, the key to which is the heart of this young man.
Best possible outcome IMHO would be that he receive help through a prison ministry for the next few years. And the young lady and her parents could stand some counseling & instruction also.
Is this a UMC church per chance?
Exactly what I was thinking. Let him be reformed in prison. How much will the church suffer if something else happens or it loses membership.
I'd want to know more about the girl before I stoned this guy or condemned him to prison. I dated a 15 yr. old Sunday school teacher when I was in high school. She was the biggest slut I've ever dated in my life.
This guy was an upstanding citizen, church member and public servant...... Let the 20 year old alone. I'm sure he has alot of "projects" he has to do.... Meddling people, don't you know once saved always saved? He already has his ticket for Heaven.... The rest is history to be made...
If 'ya can't put hot sauce on it, it ain't worth eat'n....
Ex told me her first time she was 14, he was 18, and she was the aggressor, talked him into it.
Situations such as this the truth needs to be found, before lives are forever ruined.
That's what I mean. That Sunday school teacher didn't try to talk me into it. On our first date she just unbuckled my jeans, grabbed me by the dick and said "[bleep] the hell outta me". She was an animal in the bedroom and obviously well experienced before I got ahold of her.
This guy was an upstanding citizen, church member and public servant...... Let the 20 year old alone. I'm sure he has alot of "projects" he has to do.... Meddling people, don't you know once saved always saved? He already has his ticket for Heaven.... The rest is history to be made...
What's YOUR sin count this week? Care to share? Guess God looks at YOU different, cause you're special. Good luck. Always love the "this guy is so much WORSE than me" argument, but I'm pure. In case you haven't read deep enough, God doesn't have a rating system. Lead on.
I am responsible for my own salvation... So my "sin count" is between me myself and only one other and that "one" other is definitely not you....
So you are defending Dennis Rader and his actions? I sure as heck haven't killed or raped anybody, or had inapropriate relations with a child. Doing it once might have been a mistake, doing it again after authorities have been involved shows low !!!morals!!!DING! DING! DING! DING! and the beginnings of a pattern.
You my friend need to go reevaluate your answer because A "true" repentance is seen in ones actions and not words.
To the OP you are not in the wrong and kudos to you and the board for invoking a precautionary stance. And may the young man involved in this situation come out convicted and not crucified....
If 'ya can't put hot sauce on it, it ain't worth eat'n....
To the OP you are not in the wrong and kudos to you and the board for invoking a precautionary stance. And may the young man involved in this situation come out convicted and not crucified....
As per PAMac: "don't you know once saved always saved? He already has his ticket for Heaven....." . Sorry, but that statement is totally incorrect! As Jesus said, "Go and SIN NO MORE (speaking to the prostitue at the time)." Christ himself forgave her but his own admonition was to SIN NO MORE! In other words, clean up your act! A person can fall from grace by their own actions and/or repeating the actions that caused the problems in the first place! Salvation is a gift of God, not works! You can foul yourself up if you aren't careful. Yes, God makes the choice and grants forgiveness, but HE IS NO ONE'S FOOL and he won't be mocked.
For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
There is other stuff in this book I got about free will and other stuff about choosing and choices and pretty much alot of other stuff about life and it's directions and paths. But I'm sure it doesn't mention anything about henpecking others..... Good on you Brother....or are you? Seems I was just scolded for being special but thats not the case, I just shovel the Donkey doo....
If 'ya can't put hot sauce on it, it ain't worth eat'n....
