Armed, I too am sorry that it took your wife so long to get help, but don't let it get to you too much.
I'm not going to say this is this case with all the people that passed by, but just keep in mind that as humans we are finite creatures. We don't see everything, we don't know everything, we don't understand everything we sense, we have other things we are doing and we are confined by space and time. Could it be that most of the passers were disabled by one of these?
I know you understand this, I wrote it more for others who may not get it than for you.
