Until my son irons himself out, I hope not. First in 3 generations to not do college. He smokes like a train, is seriously heavy into alcohol, and at 30 is still doing entry level work offering no future. His room and rig look like a city dump with partially consumed bottles, cans, and left over food everywhere. In total denial on having a drinking problem. No idea how he slipped so, as he was not raised that way. Fortunately he moved out recently following a cyber girl friend to Billings. I'd not wish his behavior and habits on anyone. Maybe a caring and patient girl could bring him around, but I fear that after a tying of the knot he'd regress.

A kid can be the greatest joy and largest frustration in ones life.

Last edited by 1minute; 01/17/21.

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