Originally Posted by Nollij
Originally Posted by Huntz
Some times you find out things you wish you had not.My adopted Son found his birth Dad and found out he was a real prick.Hope it works out otherwise for you.

Very true. You also may find out they want nothing to do with you. It can be a bad deal. There is only one way to find out.


A friend of mine is adopted and found his biological dad when he matched on Ancestry with a cousin. His dad didn’t even know he existed. They have continued a relationship and they are very similar personality wise. He eventually tracked down his biological mother and she wanted nothing to do with him. Basically said she put him up for a reason. Apparently he has a lot of half siblings on her side with multiple fathers. For him that sucked but he respects her wishes and it was closure for him.