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You say one thing then do another, yet it's all everyone else?

You're being a nutcase? Yes or no?

Fireball, I think northern Dave addressed your question best and as far as good men go I think he’s definitely in that group. Giving someone a bag of gold doesn’t mean you’re going to get a bag of gold. Getting what you give is more abstract than a this for that type proposition. If you give someone something because you want to bring them happiness then you’re intentions aren’t selfish so the act of bringing someone happiness by giving them something also brings the giver happiness when they see that they’ve brought happiness....if that makes sense.

At the same time if you try to bring meanness or unhappiness to someone then you’re likely to be unhappy. If your heart is angry and you want to bring that anger to bear on others then you’re likely to be angry, either at your intended recipient, at others or most importantly at yourself....once again I don’t know if I’m being clear but I know what I’m trying to say. Bad chit has a way of coming back to you just like if you were to go through life bringing happiness to others....it has a way of coming back to you, the giver, often in intangible ways.

I haven’t gotten involved in your other threads but I did want to point out that you were 100% wrong in your assertion that the good men here somehow had a duty to come to your internet aid. The good men here don’t generally get involved in childish rants nor do they involve themselves in the pile on threads. That’s partly why their reputation here is what makes them good men, they aren’t interested in bringing you or others any misery or anger, they prefer to bring support and happiness to those that need it. There are a lot of good men here and they have NO requirement to join you in your one man crusade, that doesn’t diminish their “goodness” it reinforces it.

I don’t have any problems with you nor do I wish you anything but happiness. I decided to answer this post because your question is a fair question and I felt it deserved a fair reply which is what I’ve tried to give you. You have to be happy and give happiness in order to be open to receiving it. Lately I’ve noticed that you are NOT happy .....your posts speak volumes. The way you responded to Doug on the Leupold thread and your posts here on the campfire are evidence of your unhappiness. I’ve chosen to not respond to your previous posts because I have no desire to bring you any further unhappiness but those posts were not constructive and were “mean spirited”. You chose to act in a way that brings upon you what you’ve “given”. You seem to be itching for a fight everywhere you go and then when someone obliges you get upset. You can’t have it both ways so ultimately it’s up to you to decide if you’re going to carry anger and hatred or love and happiness.

I’m sure that the stress you have with the medical issues of family can be emotionally taxing but you’ll not find happiness by taking your frustrations out on guys on the internet. If this place is really getting to you like I think it is I would suggest taking some time out to enjoy life with those people that truly love you, your family. Try to bring some joy into your life and make memories with those that are really important to you. Don’t try to bring misery to those that you don’t like on the internet expecting that will bring you joy because as you’ve seen it just brings more misery.....there’s that pesky “getting what you give” thing again.

I wish you and your family health and happiness. 👍

Address content, or attack the person saying it. In politics, when the right addresses a topic, it is logically dissected and dealt with. When the left deals with a topic, it's all about feelings.
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......what do you think of the statement that the people here use personal attacks as a substitute for addressing the validity of the content of what was said?

There were times when Steelhead and his harpies were on the attack, that yes, I did feel like you'd have to be nuts for even trying. But, the tide was turned and eventually the fire saw him for what he was. The fanboys melted away, the chatter died down, Steelhead left, I guess? I tried several times to make peace with Steelhead, and it rarely got anywhere. It seemed like the logical thing to do, try to keep peace, but it was impossible. Eventually, it was too much even for the campfire.

Was I wrong about Steelhead?

How many of you were right there when Steelhead was causing so much trouble? There were plenty of people here willing to ride his coattails when it was going with the tide. I bet those same people rode the tide against him when it changed directions.

If you meet an azzhole in the morning, you had the bad luck of meeting an azzhole. If you run into azzholes all day, YOU'RE the azzhole..................

Alwaysoutdoors, what do you think of the statement that the people here use personal attacks as a substitute for addressing the validity of the content of what was said?

This thread isn’t about Steelhead, it’s about YOU. 😉......and YOU choose to continue to play the victim, something at least Steelhead didn’t do. I’m not interested in running down someone that isn’t here to defend themselves, that’s a chickenshit move. Quit hiding behind Steelhead’s robe and address the content of my previous post. You’re only a victim because you allow yourself to be. You talk about responding to the content of someone’s post but YOU YOURSELF chose to ignore the content of my post and continue with one liners, ad hominem attacks and your “woe is me”....”everybody is picking on me”....childish bullshit.

Stop trying to draw moral equivalence and understand that you’re the one that has a problem with US. Therein lies the difference. When everyone has a problem with one person it’s likely that everyone is correct.

When one guy has a problem with everyone else......it’s obvious where the problem lies. A smart man once said.....

Raeford, I'm not sure the point you're trying to make, it really doesn't seem valid. My contention is that the people here use personal attacks as a substitute for addressing the content and spirit of a topic posted. Do you disagree?

Low T I’m telling you!

I’m Actually not even trying to be rude.. Fireball you have a women’s outlook on life but lack a woman’s ability to keep their crazy hidden. I mentioned it a few years ago to just leave if you’re this miserable on a thread you stated just like this one, one of many threads just like this one.

The world is going to hell fast, everywhere you look depravity is considered acceptable, you constantly whining here isn’t helping anything it’s only making you crazier.

No offense Greg, but it is actually not that hard to just get along, avoiding making any kind of controversial stand, never bucking the tide when you feel in your gut maybe you should. Again, not personally directed at you, but yes men rarely have trouble.

[quote=AcesNeights]Fireball, I think northern Dave addressed your question best and as far as good men go I think he’s definitely in that group. Giving someone a bag of gold doesn’t mean you’re going to get a bag of gold. Getting what you give is more abstract than a this for that type proposition. If you give someone something because you want to bring them happiness then you’re intentions aren’t selfish so the act of bringing someone happiness by giving them something also brings the giver happiness when they see that they’ve brought happiness....if that makes sense.

At the same time if you try to bring meanness or unhappiness to someone then you’re likely to be unhappy. If your heart is angry and you want to bring that anger to bear on others then you’re likely to be angry, either at your intended recipient, at others or most importantly at yourself....once again I don’t know if I’m being clear but I know what I’m trying to say. Bad chit has a way of coming back to you just like if you were to go through life bringing happiness to others....it has a way of coming back to you, the giver, often in intangible ways.

I haven’t gotten involved in your other threads but I did want to point out that you were 100% wrong in your assertion that the good men here somehow had a duty to come to your internet aid. The good men here don’t generally get involved in childish rants nor do they involve themselves in the pile on threads. That’s partly why their reputation here is what makes them good men, they aren’t interested in bringing you or others any misery or anger, they prefer to bring support and happiness to those that need it. There are a lot of good men here and they have NO requirement to join you in your one man crusade, that doesn’t diminish their “goodness” it reinforces it.

I don’t have any problems with you nor do I wish you anything but happiness. I decided to answer this post because your question is a fair question and I felt it deserved a fair reply which is what I’ve tried to give you. You have to be happy and give happiness in order to be open to receiving it. Lately I’ve noticed that you are NOT happy .....your posts speak volumes. The way you responded to Doug on the Leupold thread and your posts here on the campfire are evidence of your unhappiness. I’ve chosen to not respond to your previous posts because I have no desire to bring you any further unhappiness but those posts were not constructive and were “mean spirited”. You chose to act in a way that brings upon you what you’ve “given”. You seem to be itching for a fight everywhere you go and then when someone obliges you get upset. You can’t have it both ways so ultimately it’s up to you to decide if you’re going to carry anger and hatred or love and happiness.

I’m sure that the stress you have with the medical issues of family can be emotionally taxing but you’ll not find happiness by taking your frustrations out on guys on the internet. If this place is really getting to you like I think it is I would suggest taking some time out to enjoy life with those people that truly love you, your family. Try to bring some joy into your life and make memories with those that are really important to you. Don’t try to bring misery to those that you don’t like on the internet expecting that will bring you joy because as you’ve seen it just brings more misery.....there’s that pesky “getting what you give” thing again.

I wish you and your family health and happiness. 👍

why do you seem to have so much trouble?

Just curious, are you actually TRYING to summon beetlejuice, er I mean Steelhead?

You've used his name wayyyyy too many times in this thread alone. Leave a sleeping dog lie.