There's been some 'discussion' on this subject recently, with strong opinions expressed. Sitka Deer has a good finish he can share, as does alpine crick. As for me, I'm in the late stages of applying Waterlox Original. Looks great after 6 thin coats, and I'll probably put 4 or 5 more on it. Pores are mostly filled now. Looks better than the oil finish this is replacing, though it may not turn out as tough as what Sitka does.

Will my Waterlox finish look like a matte oil finish? Probably depends on how much I rub it out once it's cured.