Like many others here, I know what it is like to lose a parent.

In your case, I would feel very comfortable in saying that she lived the life she wanted. Many cannot say that. And she lived a better life than any Femi Nazi will ever know. I tip my hat to a fine woman who did it her way.

"...aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you, so that you may walk properly before outsiders and be dependent on no one." - Paul to the church in Thessalonica.