"RIA double stack combo gun of 9mm and 22 tcm. Felt like an anchor."

...except for playing gun games or a deployment to the SandBox one really doesn't need a 1911 that hold more that 10 rounds. The DS 1911s fit the hand as well as most Glocks and that is to say they don't fit most peoples hands very well at all....

Besides the WC Commander you may also want to look at the Dan Wessons...

Light weight..
https://www.gunbroker.com/item/803055763

All stainless...
https://www.gunbroker.com/item/803091278

If you can not deal with reality, reality will deal with you....