Interesting.
A friend passed away a few weeks ago. He had made it clear that he did not want a funeral.
Some people didnt like that so they wanted to have a get together.
It kind of bummed everyone out....but I argued that if we hadn't taken the time to go see him when he was alive, we shouldn't be in a damn hurry to have a party now that he was dead.
We will see how it turns out.
I suspect what ever the kids and wife decide will be fine for me.
