I was married for 42 tears, the first 35 very happy. She decided her social life was more important than her family and after two years of separation she filed for divorce. Two years later she passed away. I have laid awake many, many nights trying to replay how things got so wrong that started so right. Still have no answers.
I am now married again since a year and a half ago and could not be happier. We are not just husband and wife but are the best of friends. Still in a learning curve but the future looks bright.