I got aware of there being a problem many years ago , brought it to the attention of family at a dinner once .
That all laughed and thought it was the silliest thing they ever heard . That would never be allowed here !
A while back I brought that dinner up in a conversation, well well , no one remembers .
Set here pondering on how to follow up on this , There is much truth in some things left unsaid being wise .
Won’t change anything .
Kenneth