Heavy gun and light recoil.
Push over punch.
If you can get her on a 22, a light loaded 45 might get her used to recoil.
A gentle buck isn't painful or intimidating, after awhile it's fun.
Maybe then she won't fear the sharper recoil of carry guns.
My wife despises the G19, but loves a Government Model gun shooting hardball.
And enjoys Ruger S/A 45 Colts. In levels up toward the top of SAA loads.
45s are her favorite, but she has never shot any little light ones.
