Hmm, I'd be careful racking one in next to my body, just in case.

She does have good taste, hope that works out well for her.

For ladies, I often recommend a revolver as they are easy to load, no safety, etc. Fill the cylinder, close, fire.

A J or K framed Smith in 357 can be loaded w/light recoiling specials and later anything from 110-125s in HP from either +p 38s or 357s will do great w/less recoil...for 2 legged vermin.