There used to be a stereotype of male doctors chasing nurses around...
But for at least the past fifteen years my observation of medical practices has been that the nurses and administrators keep the doctor running around so much he barely has time to talk to you, much less set the direction of the business that us controlling him.
It's the sort of think that makes miss the days of the country doctor who you had a real relationship with..And perhaps hunted, fished or golfed with...