To touch on a couple of points:
I am thinking of the best way to address this. I have never actually been in the school due to covid. I don't know the principal or any of the teachers. My wife has met a couple but not the principal. Right now it is about making things better going forward to prevent a repeat. I don't feel I need some kind of justice for boy because he is fine.
It's not okay for the school to do what they did. I'd talk to the principle and ask why you weren't contacted as soon as possible. If you get the feeling the principle is dismissive or otherwise unconcerned, most private schools have a board of directors. I'd make sure they know what's going on.
