Lots of folks want to make excuses for poor behavior.
Is society better served by a 2 parent household?
Is society better served by those 2 people staying together?
Societal pressure to stay loyal and true to your mate isn’t just a way for the man to get more money from you, or a way for the church to insert itself into your life.
I cohabitated with one woman, and it’ll haunt me to my grave.
My wife and I moved in together once we were engaged 22 years ago and she hasn’t left yet.